tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5643001769404530750.post6877103413823616366..comments2023-06-01T08:24:25.768-07:00Comments on Tick Tock MY Clock: Pondering ~In-LawsHeY Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13547907127648639592noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5643001769404530750.post-69428293365877223912012-11-30T08:25:26.841-08:002012-11-30T08:25:26.841-08:00Oh do I know about hating BIL's!! My husband&...Oh do I know about hating BIL's!! My husband's brother is not even in our life right now. By his own choice, and by his own words. He is Bi-polar and while I sympathize, I will not take your crap and let you use that as an excuse to treat me badly. (and publicly on Facebook, thank you very much.) So yeah....with you on that one.<br /><br />My inlaws have a very different family structure and sense of "closeness" than my huge extended family that always gets together and loves and supports one another. Aside from BIL, there's nothing wrong, or bad about my inlaws. They're just differnet - the lives their own lives, and family is really just an afterthought. It's not that I don't love them; there just exists and absence of any "real" relationship, and that makes me sad. Especially for my husband.<br />My MIL can be downright nasty to be around - but she's like that with everyone, so I don't take it personally. I've learned to just shrug it off, and let hubby deal with her.LA Botcharhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09045857399816360885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5643001769404530750.post-60733842737319492872012-11-29T19:13:12.198-08:002012-11-29T19:13:12.198-08:00But do we have to like each other ???LOL LOLBut do we have to like each other ???LOL LOLHeY Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13547907127648639592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5643001769404530750.post-45211703853456820592012-11-29T19:12:13.916-08:002012-11-29T19:12:13.916-08:00YES they do Brenda and some people need to get ove...YES they do Brenda and some people need to get over themselves and just be nice....Love YOU this was a good ponder!!HeY Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13547907127648639592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5643001769404530750.post-46685745672240442722012-11-29T19:10:55.775-08:002012-11-29T19:10:55.775-08:00You are very welcomed. Yeah I am okay with the BIL...You are very welcomed. Yeah I am okay with the BIL I refuse to just accept it so thankfully my hubs no longer argues in his behalf.HeY Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13547907127648639592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5643001769404530750.post-36187846985281727312012-11-29T19:09:29.973-08:002012-11-29T19:09:29.973-08:00I don't have a great track record with BIL'...I don't have a great track record with BIL's either mostly due to alcohol and then the other part was they were jerks!!HeY Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13547907127648639592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5643001769404530750.post-61035783765401450902012-11-29T19:07:48.934-08:002012-11-29T19:07:48.934-08:00I tell my hubs how lucky he is to not have to deal...I tell my hubs how lucky he is to not have to deal with my family they all live states away & I have no relationship with my mom all the in law stuff is from his and it took him forever to see or I should say accept that they really were not saints when it came to me.HeY Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13547907127648639592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5643001769404530750.post-24083339426531211202012-11-29T19:05:10.659-08:002012-11-29T19:05:10.659-08:00AS R you BETH !!! ((HUGS))AS R you BETH !!! ((HUGS))HeY Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13547907127648639592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5643001769404530750.post-16103745432666918152012-11-29T09:18:34.156-08:002012-11-29T09:18:34.156-08:00Some people just done get the concept of "fam...Some people just done get the concept of "family"! in-law or not, it doesn't matter . . . it's all family. And family is supposed to love each other! Boo for your icky BILJudyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16917139752555698353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5643001769404530750.post-36896863160189376992012-11-29T08:29:48.254-08:002012-11-29T08:29:48.254-08:00I am so glad you wrote all of this.....I think fam...I am so glad you wrote all of this.....I think family dynamics are hard... and some people make them even harder!<br />Love you!Brenda Youngermanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14005915631509507354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5643001769404530750.post-25058548624796691792012-11-29T07:46:09.204-08:002012-11-29T07:46:09.204-08:00Thank you for your comment on my blog. It really ...Thank you for your comment on my blog. It really helped me. Family dynamics are such a pain in the butt at times. I hate it that you BIL is so nasty to you.Rochelle@AFamilyofLooneyshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04605268552555514174noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5643001769404530750.post-14971814263481229112012-11-29T06:29:55.548-08:002012-11-29T06:29:55.548-08:00I did not get along with my bil when I was married...I did not get along with my bil when I was married. He was a horrible person, a user and a woman hater. Tami AKA My Kid's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17310459819678664311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5643001769404530750.post-78637187501890241212012-11-29T05:20:30.798-08:002012-11-29T05:20:30.798-08:00You are in my thoughts and prayers each day!
HUGS...You are in my thoughts and prayers each day!<br /><br />HUGS!!!!Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12020604933621899108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5643001769404530750.post-57949473645056126102012-11-29T01:23:08.835-08:002012-11-29T01:23:08.835-08:00Family relationships are very difficult especially...Family relationships are very difficult especially when you can't get along. We have very little to do with our in-laws or even our family for that matter. My relationship with my own SILs and DIL is supportive but I will not step over any boundries they have. The grandchildren make it easier.retired not tiredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12163194064670674682noreply@blogger.com